Goodbye, Good Girl!
Your People Pleaser Has been In Charge Long Enough.
Grab the 90-minute Identity Dissolving process to retire your People Pleaser, Over giver + Good Girl so you can say NO, hold your boundaries & say what you really think...
(WITHOUT trying to “be more confident” or doing more mindset work that doesn’t last.)
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This Identity Reset Framework will help you…
Say NO without overexplaining or spending the rest of the day wondering if you upset someone.
Hold your boundaries even when you can feel someone else’s disappointment instead of absorbing it and bending to keep the peace.
Say what you know, think or intuitively sense OUT LOUD without watering it down, pulling another card or looking for someone else to validate what you already know.
Make the choice that feels right for YOU without immediately scanning what everyone else wants or letting your inner Good Girl talk you out of it.
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Who Is This For:
Call the Shots is for the intuitive, highly self-aware woman who has done the inner work… and is freaking tired of watching an old version of herself take over when it matters.
Especially if you’re…
The intuitive or highly sensitive woman who can read a room in two seconds… then feels someone’s energy shift after she says NO and immediately wonders if she did something wrong.
The healer, coach or practitioner who trusts her gifts with other people… then gives the client an extra 30 minutes, three resources + a voice note because some part of her worries she didn’t give “enough.”
The creative, guide or entrepreneur with something real to say… who writes the potent thing, then adds three disclaimers and softens the hell out of it so nobody takes it the wrong way.
The deeply self-aware woman who has done YEARS of healing + personal growth and can literally WATCH her People Pleaser, Good Girl or Overgiver take over… but awareness hasn’t been enough to stop it.
If you’ve ever thought, “WHY am I doing this again when I know better?”... you’re in the right place.
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For YEARS, I wanted to create a community... but actually running one sounded like a freaking ball and chain.
More people needing me. More messages to answer. More giving, more responsibility. It sounded freaking exhausting.
I thought ‘maybe I just don’t want this.’
Then it hit me: maybe the problem wasn’t the community. Maybe it was the version of ME I imagined running it.
My People Pleaser would overgive. My “Never Enough” self would keep adding more. My Striver would make it hard. And my Imposter? She had plenty to say about whether I was qualified to lead.
So I used my Identity Dissolving Technique to retire those old Game Players instead…
Once I did, the community stopped feeling so heavy.
I launched, 30+ women joined quickly, and it generated $1K+ almost immediately.
I didn’t need more clarity or another reason to wait.
I needed to stop letting old identities call the shots.
And that’s exactly what I’ll show you how to do inside Call the Shots.
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Student Win
Rebecca had been in therapy for 2 years and had a daily meditation practice, and still couldn't crack a deeply embedded identity pattern. One session inside Call The Shots (formerly Healer Identity Upgrade) and she felt it shift immediately.
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Student Win
Leah used the Call The Shots and walked away with a release that inspired her to clear out other areas of her life too. She didn't just feel it - she cleared it, inside and out.
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Student Win
She was overwhelmed by how much this process helped her with a very complex area of her life, finally helping her to see the thread connecting everything that felt heavy.
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What You Get
Everything you need to spot the old Game Player, work to dissolve it & start calling the shots instead:
8 Bite-Sized Lessons: The Identity Reset Framework
Learn how identities like the People Pleaser, Overgiver, Good Girl + Imposter can dictate your choices, reactions & relationships... and how to recognize who’s holding the controller when it matters. ($222 value)
The Identity Dissolving Technique: My step-by-step guided process for working with the identity underneath the pattern... so you’re not constantly trying to think, affirm or “be more confident” your way into behaving differently. ($222 value)
The Identity Completion Test: A simple internal check to see whether you feel complete with the identity you just worked on... or there’s another layer asking for your attention. No endlessly digging. ($67 value)
BONUS: The Identity Upgrade Integration Guide
A simple post-process support to integrate what shifted + notice what feels different as you move back into real life. ($67 value)
BONUS: After the Shift: What to do when the old People Pleaser, Good Girl or Over giver shows up again... without obsessively monitoring or correcting yourself. ($47 value)
Identity Shifts in the Wild: See how this work played out for other intuitive women + healers: the identities they worked on, what surprised them and what changed afterward. ($47 value)
REGULAR PRICE: $672
TODAY ONLY $55!
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What Healer’s Are Saying
“This course was profound with digging into my worry about teaching and how I will and am will be perceived. Many thanks.”
“this has been amazing - thank you so much!”
“So grateful for this course today! Thank you Venessa! Beautiful experience 💗"
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You don’t need to “be more confident.”
You’ve been told to trust yourself more. Hold your boundaries. Stop people-pleasing. Speak your truth.
But you already KNOW all of that.
And yet...
You say no... then write a novel explaining why.
You feel someone’s disappointment... and immediately rethink your boundary.
A client asks for “one more thing”... and the Overgiver is already typing back YES.
You KNOW what you know... until someone questions it and suddenly you need proof.
What if these aren’t personality traits... but old identities you’ve practiced for so long they FEEL like you?
I call them your Game Players: the subconscious identities holding the controller when life gets real.
And you can change the game all you want...
But if the same old identity is holding the controller, you can keep finding yourself playing the same way.
Call the Shots is about changing who gets to make the move.
Student WinShe started using the technique as part of another program I have and seeing exponential shifts that are helping her to get closer to her goals as a healer (in record time).
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I found a way of expressing myself that actually feels like ME.”
That’s what Christiane told me after using the Identity Dissolving Technique.
She became more visible, her confidence grew & her voice started coming through “not as a performance, but as a transmission.”
Why? She didn’t need to fake confidence. She needed to work with the old identities underneath it.
Inside Call the Shots, I’ll show you how.
Student Win
Christiane didn’t need to learn how to “be more confident.”
After using the Identity Dissolving Technique, she became more visible & found a way of expressing herself that actually felt like HER.
Less pretending. More of who she actually is.
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Meet Your GuideVenessa Rodriguez, CNS
I’m Venessa Rodriguez, and for a LONG time, I thought being deeply intuitive + caring meant I was just... naturally an overgiver.
I could feel what people needed before they said it.
So I’d give the client an extra 30 minutes. Send the bonus voice note nobody asked for. Overprepare for the call. Say YES when my whole body was saying no... then wonder why I was exhausted.
And if I did hold a boundary?
I could feel the slightest shift in someone’s energy and immediately start thinking: Was I too harsh? Should I explain myself? Are they upset with me?
The wild part was, I could WATCH myself doing it.
I knew I didn’t have to be responsible for everyone. I knew I was allowed to disappoint people. I’d done YEARS of healing, mindset + subconscious work.
And yet... there she was.
The People Pleaser. The Overgiver. The Good Girl who wanted everyone to be happy with me. Still volunteering for the job.
Then I realized:
Being able to FEEL what someone needs doesn’t mean I’m responsible for giving it to them.
So instead of trying harder to have boundaries, I started working with the identity underneath the behavior using my Identity Dissolving Technique.
I started using the process on my own People Pleaser, Overgiver & Good Girl identities.
I stopped saying yes to misaligned clients, cut my work hours in half and started working exclusively with people I actually wanted to serve.
I didn’t have to become less sensitive or stop caring about people.
I stopped letting my inner Good Girl call the shots.
And inside Call the Shots, I’ll show you how.
If you’re tired of watching your People Pleaser, Overgiver & Good Girl take over even when you KNOW better...
And you’re ready to say NO, hold your boundaries + say what you really think without the guilt and second-guessing afterward…
Snag Call the Shots.
I’ll show you how to retire the People Pleaser, Overgiver & Good Girl so YOU get to call the shots instead.
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